
The BDSM/TAROT
(revised and expanded version)
Part B.
copyright © 1998 by Robert G. Benson
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5. The Minor Arcana and Its Symbols
[The Suit of Scepters] [Ace] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7] [8] [9] [10] [Page] [Knight] [Queen] [King]
The Suit of Cups [Ace] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7] [8] [9] 10 [Page] [Knight] [Queen] [King]
The Suit of Swords [Ace] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7] [8] [9] 10 [Page] [Knight] [Queen] [King]
The Suit of Coins [Ace] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7] [8] [9] 10 [Page] [Knight] [Queen] [King]
6. The Major Arcana and Its Symbols
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5. The Minor Arcana and Its Symbols
THE SUIT OF SCEPTERS
The suit of Scepters is symbolized by the element of fire. Scepters is the domain of rulership, punishment, and pain. A scepter is a symbol of rulership. Although it is a symbol of authority, it also literally represents a weapon-like implement which can be used to punish those who defy its authority. The suit of the scepter thus is a symbol of the power, authority, and punishment which exist in life situations.
In the examples are two "sexual" activities, and no "public" activities.
For dominants it designates honor, position of dominance, and strong action.
For submissives it designates punishment, torture, and use as an object.
- Ace of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: the mere touch of pain stimulates; it does not hurt
- ---example: tickling
- reversed: even a little punishment is harmful
- Two of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: a little pain is pleasing because it arouses without harming
- ---example: sexual use as an object using objects for penetration
- reversed: any punishment is uncomfortable
- Three of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: pain can bring pleasure to mind and body
- ---example: spanking
- reversed: a negative attitude can turn pleasure into pain
- Four of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: pain can bring pleasure we would not otherwise seek
- ---example: being forced sexually; being raped
- reversed: pain which is forced is not pleasurable
- Five of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: pleasure and pain can be the same thing
- ---example: nipple stimulation and torture
- reversed: pain and pleasure do not mix
- Six of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: pain should be concentrated where the pleasure is greatest
- ---example: genital stimulation and torture
- reversed: nothing and no place is exempt from pain
- Seven of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: sometimes there is an asethetic purpose to pain
- ---example: piercing or needle torture
- reversed: pain sometimes has another purpose
- Eight of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: the instruments of pain can take unusual forms, as experimentation can show
- ---example: electrical, fire, or hot wax torture
- reversed: even the commonest things can bring pain
- Nine of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: to triumph over pain it is necessary to face it
- ---example: flogging, or caning torture
- reversed: pain can be overwhelming
- Ten of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: offering yourself to accept others' pain can truly be enriching
- ---example: being the "entertainment" at a torture party
- reversed: being forced to accept pain for another denigrates you
- Page of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: something new, unexperienced, or novel in the area of rulership, pain, torture, or use
- reversed: something unexpectedly difficult in the area of rulership, pain, torture, or use
- Knight of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: slave's greatest strength in the area of rulership, pain, torture, or use
- reversed: slave's greatest fear in the area of rulership, pain, torture, or use
- Queen of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: slave's choice or greatest desire in the area of rulership, pain, torture, or use
- reversed: slave's weakness or choice denied in the area of rulership, pain, torture, or use
- King of Scepters [TOP]
- concept: Master's choice or greatest desire in the area of rulership, pain, torture, or use
- reversed: Master's weakness or choice denied in the area of rulership, pain, torture, or use
THE SUIT OF CUPS
The suit of Cups is symbolized by the element of water. Cups is the domain of pleasure, sensation, and acquiescence. The cup is the symbol of nurturing and satisfying needs. The suit of the cup is necessary for holding and drinking life-giving water as well as the intoxicating brews which we use to enrich life.
In the examples are five "sexual" activities, and two "public" activities.
For dominants it designates receiving sex and enjoying sexual dominance.
For submissives it designates giving sex and enjoying sexually submissive behavior.
- Ace of Cups [TOP]
- concept: just a sip of pleasure is relaxing
- ---example: sensual massage given by a nude masseuse
- reversed: some pleasure is too strong to be sipped
- Two of Cups [TOP]
- concept: taking a good drink of pleasure can be fulfilling
- ---example: vaginal sex
- reversed: what is pleasurable to one is not to another
- Three of Cups [TOP]
- concept: try the different tastes of pleasure
- ---example: cock-sucking
- reversed: the meat of pleasure is the same for most everyone
- Four of Cups [TOP]
- concept: regulating your access to pleasure builds character
- ---example: controlling your sexual useage
- reversed: denial of your sexual nature weakens you
- Five of Cups [TOP]
- concept: pleasure can extend throughout your life
- ---example: IN PUBLIC: worship of touching, kissing, licking, etc.
- reversed: your pleasure is strictly regulated
- Six of Cups [TOP]
- concept: no pleasure should be excluded from your service
- ---example: full domestic slavish servitude; a true seduction
- reversed: your ability to serve is limited
- Seven of Cups [TOP]
- concept: every part of yourself can bring pleasure
- ---example: anal sex
- reversed: nothing you do seems to bring the results you want
- Eight of Cups [TOP]
- concept: sometimes it is better to give more than you receive
- ---example: deep throat fucking
- reversed: you want more than you can get
- Nine of Cups [TOP]
- concept: you must seek out new places to practice your pleasure to perfect it
- ---example: IN PUBLIC: fully openly submissive deportment
- reversed: your opportunities are very limited
- Ten of Cups [TOP]
- concept: you must wholly give yourself for others' pleasure to be consumed by it yourself
- ---example: party sex games having multiple penetrations by both cocks and toys
- reversed: you are unable to free yourself of your fears or limitations
- Page of Cups [TOP]
- concept: something unexpected, unexperienced, or novel in the area of sex and dominance
- reversed: something unexpectedly difficult in the area of sex and dominance
- Knight of Cups [TOP]
- concept: slave's greatest strength in the area of sex and dominance
- reversed: slave's greatest fear in the area of sex and dominance
- Queen of Cups [TOP]
- concept: slave's choice or greatest desire in the area of sex and dominance
- reversed: slave's weakness or choice denied in the area of sex and dominance
- King of Cups [TOP]
- concept: Master's choice or greatest desire in the area of sex and dominance
- reversed: Master's weakness or choice denied in the area of sex and dominance
THE SUIT OF SWORDS
The suit of Swords is symbolized by the element of earth. Swords is the domain of tools, their use, and the creation of objects of utility and beauty using them. The sword is one example of such an implement, and although the sword typically is seen as an instrument of war, it might be better to see it here as the knife by which a craftsman carves out his desired tool or model. Thus, the suit of swords represents the use of tools, the art of transforming objects, and the creation of beauty.
In the examples are three "sexual" activities, and four "public" activities.
For dominants it designates imposing bondage and body controls on the slave.
For submissives it designates loss of body control and physical and emotional transformation.
- Ace of Swords [TOP]
- concept: the first step, although it doesn't accomplish much, is satisfying
- ---example: partial bondage (wrists, arms, feet, legs, or gag)
- reversed: you are unable to get started
- Two of Swords [TOP]
- concept: gaining skill in something is deeply satisfying
- ---example: making her helpless in bondage then using her for sex
- reversed: a problem which is not being overcome brings unhappiness
- Three of Swords [TOP]
- concept: there are many different routes, and all can have beautiful results
- ---example: IN PUBLIC: requiring restrictive clothing (corset or waist cincher, pushup bra, ultrahigh heels, garter belt and stockings, collar, cuffs, etc.)
- reversed: there are no good alternatives
- Four of Swords [TOP]
- concept: truly mastering something can have spectacular results
- ---example: immobilizing body bondage (legs and arms); suspension bondage
- reversed: failure is terrible to experience
- Five of Swords [TOP]
- concept: there are always secrets which can be learned and mastered
- ---example: IN PUBLIC: wearing hidden sexual appliances or chains/locks
- reversed: there are always secrets which cannot be learned and mastered
- Six of Swords [TOP]
- concept: mastery can alter reality
- ---example: head mask or torso skirt (pull a long skirt up and tie it closed above the head)
- reversed: reality always must be taken into account
- Seven of Swords [TOP]
- concept: an initial showing of the results of your efforts is necessary for its perfection
- ---example: IN PUBLIC: some bondage devices should be visible
- reversed: mastery must first be applied within before it can be applied outside
- Eight of Swords [TOP]
- concept: truly effective mastery can lead to a full transformation
- ---example: mummification (full body restriction); restrictive full-body suits
- reversed: this mastery is not very effective
- Nine of Swords [TOP]
- concept: to be transformed is to transcend negative influences
- ---example: IN PUBLIC: abduction and rape; being transported while in bondage for later sexual use
- reversed: negative influences within inhibit true transformation
- Ten of Swords [TOP]
- concept: true transformation extends beyond the individual
- ---example: being a bondage party toy, including sexual usage
- reversed: some transformations are only possible within a limited extent
- Page of Swords [TOP]
- concept: something unexpected, unexperienced, or novel in the area of bondage, control, and transformation
- reversed: something unexpectedly difficult in the area of bondage, control, and transformation
- Knight of Swords [TOP]
- concept: slave's greatest strength in the area of bondage, control, and transformation
- reversed: slave's greatest fear in the area of bondage, control, and transformation
- Queen of Swords [TOP]
- concept: slave's choice or greatest desire in the area of bondage, control, and transformation
- reversed: slave's weakness or choice denied in the area of bondage, control, and transformation
- King of Swords [TOP]
- concept: Master's choice or greatest desire in the area of bondage, control, and transformation
- reversed: Master's weakness or choice denied in the area of bondage, control, and transformation
THE SUIT OF COINS
The suit of Coins is symbolized by the element of air. Coins is the domain of commerce and society. The coin is a symbol of the means by which commerce and society function. The coin itself is an implement, but it is only a means to the expression and sharing of items of beauty and value within society. The coin also is a very tangible indication of the right of ownership. The suit of coins thus represents several continua in society: sharing & possessing, ownership & sale, displaying & hoarding, and valueble & valueless.
In the examples are four "sexual" activities, and six "public" activities.
For dominants it designates displaying the slave and demonstrating its ownership.
For submissives it designates exhibitionism, humiliation, and proof of ownership in society.
- Ace of Coins [TOP]
- concept: even the simplest commonplace things can be valuable
- ---example: IN PUBLIC: eating/drinking eroticism (being fed by hand, food games, etc.); kissing games with friends and strangers; etc.
- reversed: something which is of little value or worthless
- Two of Coins [TOP]
- concept: displaying your property shows your wealth
- ---example: IN PUBLIC: wearing exotic, sexy, or scandalous attire
- reversed: your wealth is concealed
- Three of Coins [TOP]
- concept: usually your property has multiple values
- ---example: IN PUBLIC: erotic-dancing, or stripping, or flashing
- reversed: don't diversify in too many directions as this will reduce your wealth
- Four of Coins [TOP]
- concept: handling your property well displays your skill and confidence with it
- ---example: IN PUBLIC: humiliation while clothes shopping, visit to doctor, etc.
- reversed: your lack of skill is visible
- Five of Coins [TOP]
- concept: stripping your property down to its bare essentials reveals its inner workings
- ---example: IN PUBLIC: having clothing taken away (car travel, at the beach, in movies, etc.)
- reversed: stripping your property also reveals your values and needs
- Six of Coins [TOP]
- concept: demonstrate your property's key features to those who can appreciate them
- ---example: IN PUBLIC: having sex where it can be seen
- reversed: being frustrated by others lack of interest
- Seven of Coins [TOP]
- concept: beautiful property should be appreciated by others and not kept in storage
- ---example: masturbating in front of others
- reversed: jealousy
- Eight of Coins [TOP]
- concept: being generous with your wealth brings other rewards
- ---example: being lent to others for service and sexplay
- reversed: being selfish
- Nine of Coins [TOP]
- concept: everything can have a price put on it
- ---example: being the prize in a wager, or being prostituted or sold in some way
- reversed: some things are too valuable to be priced
- Ten of Coins [TOP]
- concept: everything should be evaluated and used appropriately
- ---example: group sex, or marathon sex (i.e., counting how many orgasms or lovers), or contest sex (for whatever is desired)
- reversed: not everything of value is being used
- Page of Coins [TOP]
- concept: something unexpected, unexperienced, or novel in the area of exhibition, humiliation, and slave ownership
- reversed: something unexpectedly difficult in the area of exhibition, humiliation, and slave ownership
- Knight of Coins [TOP]
- concept: slave's greatest strength in the area of exhibition, humiliation, and proving slave ownership
- reversed: slave's greatest fear in the area of exhibition, humiliation, and proving slave ownership
- Queen of Coins [TOP]
- concept: slave's choice or greatest desire in the area of exhibition, humiliation, and proving slave ownership
- reversed: slave's weakness or choice denied in the area of exhibition, humiliation, and proving slave ownership
- King of Coins [TOP]
- concept: Master's choice or greatest desire in the area of exhibition, humiliation, and proving slave ownership
- reversed: Master's weakness or choice denied in the area of exhibition, humiliation, and proving slave ownership
6. The Major Arcana and Its Symbols
- 1 -- Magician [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Mercury
- objects: tools, analyses, interesting sights & sounds & smells, being tricked, pornographic literature/artwork
- location: stages, high places, laboratories
- body part: the intelligent senses (eyes, ears, and nose)
- principles: special knowledge helps deal with matters
- ---example: using will power and being clever will succeed
- reversed: being too clever or manipulative opens dangerous paths
- 2 -- Virgin [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Virgo
- objects: secrets, virgins, hidden cameras, dildoes
- location: closets, children's rooms
- body part: immature sexual organs, hidden genital area generally
- principles: innocence, submission to authority
- ---example: it is time to explore in new directions; learn to please yourself
- reversed: your illusion of innocence hides secrets
- 3 -- Wife [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Libra
- objects: sexual women, marriage bed, hand/leg cuffs, marital photos and videos, nourishment
- location: bedroom, kitchen, gardens and farms
- body part: abdomen, revealed genital area generally
- principles: commitment, equality in marriage, shared rituals
- ---example: successful slavery is always a true commitment
- reversed: a true slave to her mate
- 4 -- Master [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Scorpio
- objects: the Master, rules, BDSM equipment, obeisance
- location: study, His Area
- body part: shoulders and back
- principles: domination, greatness
- ---example: believe in yourself and you can gain your aims
- reversed: lack of perception coupled with power can harm everyone around you
- 5 -- Cleric [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Jupiter
- objects: laws and agreements, conventional beliefs, canes and rods
- location: church, government offices, court
- body part: lower legs
- principles: support comes from guidelines and forms
- ---example: the use of written agreements
- reversed: forms and formulas are no substitute for a sound reality
- 6 -- Lovers Intertwined [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Venus
- objects: lovers, jewelry, perfume and makeup, prostitutes, sexual attraction
- location: trysting place, dances
- body part: thighs, arms, tongues
- principles: passion and temptation, jealousy
- ---example: believe in your passion, but excess leads to destruction
- reversed: separation increases your longing for each other
- 7 -- Victory [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Sagittarius
- objects: whips, chains, locks, BDSM accoutrements, handsome males
- location: dungeon, prison
- body part: arms
- principles: victory, conquest
- ---example: using force can achieve your aim
- reversed: true submission cannot be attained by force but rather by winning over the spirit of your target
- 8 -- Natural Balance (The Scale) [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Capricorn
- objects: shared thoughts and feelings, equal partnerships, telephones and recordings, therapists
- location: drawing room, living room, parlor
- body part: neck and throat (and voice)
- principles: justice is what equals strive for between them
- ---example: moderation brings equilibrium, respect brings justice
- reversed: injustice is the goal of the strong over the weak
- 9 -- Thinker [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Aquarius
- objects: books, computers, special knowledge
- location: library, quiet places
- body part: mind
- principles: strength through study and experimentation
- ---example: understand, then respond properly to the situation
- reversed: excessive study inhibits the testing of your ideas in reality
- 10 -- Natural Cycle (The Wheel) [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Uranus
- objects: chance, dice, games, sex toys, contraceptives
- location: gaming rooms, parties, births and funerals
- body part: stomach (also the womb for females)
- principles: things can't be controlled; change always comes
- ---example: be courageous, patient, and try to have fun come what may
- reversed: the chaotic cycles around you make life scary as well as exciting
- 11 -- Seduction (Enchantress) [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Neptune
- objects: symbols of power, rings, piercings, talismans, earrings, seductive women, candles and soft light
- location: art galleries, theaters, dances
- body part: breasts and nipples (females), chest (males), heart
- principles: intuition, spirituality, and secret motivations
- ---example: what is within you will lead the way to both "good" and "bad"
- reversed: greed sways you to ensnare others
- 12 -- Sacrifice (Martyr) [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Pisces
- objects: sacrifices, denial, blood, pain, gifts, high heels, corsets, torture
- location: woman's dressing room, the wedding bed, dungeon
- body part: feet
- principles: give yourself and forgive others
- ---example: follow your pain; do not run from it
- reversed: you believe your sacrifice proves you are superior to others
- 13 -- Ending (Reaper) [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Aries
- objects: the end, death, fear, dark or drab clothing, twilight
- location: bathroom, funeral, desert
- body part: ass, anus
- principles: the old must end before the new can begin
- ---example: accept the end gracefully; you cannot stop the night
- reversed: you are hastening decay and not preparing for the future
- 14 -- Transforming (Alchemist) [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Taurus
- objects: unusual objects, transforming power, surgery, hypnosis
- location: classroom, dressing room, medical offices, changing land sites
- body part: skin and hair
- principles: cleverly applied knowledge can create wonderous things
- ---example: experiment and create unusual partnerships/objects; remake yourself
- reversed: some creations are abominations and their inevitable deaths may be tragic
- 15 -- Selfishness (Black Magician) [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Saturn
- objects: wickedness, black magic, instruments of fear, masks, makeup, traps, night
- location: bachelor apartment, secret ceremonies, lush locations
- body part: face
- principles: danger comes from selfishness, cruelty, and excess pride
- ---example: some greed is good, but be careful for it can destroy your achievements
- reversed: your ill-will is now unleashed against others and none are safe, not even you
- 16 -- Sudden Change (Lightening) [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Mars
- objects: accidents, problems, disasters, electricity, knives, speech, lightening
- location: amusement parks, automobiles, disaster sites
- body part: mouth and tongue
- principles: actions have unintended consequences
- ---example: impulse leads to trouble, so think things through
- reversed: even a sudden disaster opens a new path
- 17 -- High Ideals (Star) [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Gemini
- objects: hope, faith, goals, the idealized lover, gifts, idealized pictures
- location: mountain tops, religious retreats, charity centers
- body part: heart
- principles: the search for attainment and self-realization is inherently fulfilling
- ---example: go for your dream but do not forsake your priniciples
- reversed: you are lost and finding your truth will not be easy
- 18 -- Strong Feelings (Moon) [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Cancer
- objects: deception, secret enemies, silence, women friends, nighttime, missed menstrual periods
- location: ocean, pools of water, rivers, forests, moonlit countryside
- body part: aroused sexual organs, conjoined sexual organs
- principles: strong feelings make it hard to tell truth from falsehood
- ---example: be careful for strong emotions can mislead you
- reversed: anchoring yourself in your feelings makes it hard for you to affect others as you wish
- 19 -- Truth (Sun) [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Leo
- objects: joy, innocence, children, flowers, mid-day, bright light, realistic pictures
- location: countryside, beaches
- body part: eyes
- principles: truth and fidelity bring happiness
- ---example: set your goals to the best that you can do
- reversed: an excessive focus on revealing the truth can harm others
- 20 -- Birthing [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Moon
- objects: awakening, rebirth, pregnant women & childbirth, morning
- location: hideouts, caves, cellars, mines, birthing rooms
- body part: vagina (females), knees and lips (males)
- principles: rising above the past brings new life
- ---example: after resting it is time to reach out and make a new beginning
- reversed: the inability to enter the world leaves you and your ideas stillborn
- 21 -- Craftsman [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Sun
- objects: man-made objects, imagination, male friends
- location: workshops, office buildings
- body part: penis and balls (males), knees and lips (females)
- principles: creative power brings ideas to reality
- ---example: application and enthusiasm improves chances for achieving your aims
- reversed: you must be careful not to make those errors which will cause your ideas to fail to achieve your aims
- 22 -- Owner [TOP]
- astrological ruler: Pluto
- objects: assets, burdens, money and debts, addiction, greed, materialism
- location: houses, banks, pawnshops, storage areas
- body part: hands
- principles: your possessions are important to you
- ---example: obsessions bring unhappiness, so moderate your needs
- reversed: caring too much for your possessions will lead them to assume too great a role in your life
[Copyright © 1998 by Robert G. Benson]
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